1. They felt that they did not know what to say or had never been taught how.
2. That they didn’t come into contact with many unbelievers and therefore didn’t need to witness
3. That it would not be politically correct in the circles where they were in.
After conducting the study though, the number one answer, by an overwhelming margin was: That the lifestyle that they were leading was not in line with what a Christians should be, and therefore they would be embarrassed if their unbelieving friends found out that they considered themselves a Christian.
This was very surprising to me. I remember as a child my grandmother had a framed poster on her wall that read: Preach the gospel at all times, if necessary use words. At one point I asked my mom what that meant, and she told me that the way that we as Christians choose to live our lives should be so apparent to people around us that we shouldn’t even have to tell them we are Christians they should be able to tell without asking. I believe that we as Christians should be able to ‘Preach the gospel at all times’ With or without opening our mouths. My mom says that there should be an example of this in here, and I suppose the only one that I can think of right now is when I first started working at my current job. At that time there was only one other believer there, and when I first met her, I could tell, not just from the things that she said, but from the things that she didn't say as well. I had put up some bible verses on my computer and after the first day she came up to me and said "Are you a Christian? So am I!" And gave me a great big hug. Even now I'm very grateful on the days she works, it's not that she says or does anything preachy, it's just that you can tell by the things that she does, how she tries to help others, how she avoids certain conversations or just doesn't allow the things that are going on around her to cause her to get stressed. I think that these things alone have made her stand out to the other people that we work with, and they all know that she is a great Christian as well, without her having to bring up God, although she does with out being afraid!
Ephesians 6:14
14 Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, Romans 2:13
13 For it is not those who hear the law who are righteous in God’s sight, but it is those who obey the law who will be declared righteous.